Michele Arrieta and Aisling Curran didn’t use a florist for their April 2013 in Pine Island, New York. The women planted tulip bulbs together the autumn before and the flowers bloomed right before their big day (weddingprideny.com/t/88).
Are you and your partner laidback board gamers? Try beers and Cards Against Humanity at a picnic instead of sending you guests to a lounge for hors d’oeuvres and champagne while you take wedding portraits.
Emily Rotella and Sheila Hicks paid homage to Sheila’s African-American background at their wedding by embracing the tradition of jumping the broom.“The broom is like a home and hearth thing, and during slavery, slaves were not able to enter into any legal contract, including marriage. So jumping the broom became important,” says Sheila, alluding to a tradition that can also serve as a metaphor for marriage equality (weddingprideny.com/t/100).
Instead of party favors, Charlotte and Valerie Garafolo, donated that money to charities that were important to their guests — Sloan Kettering Cancer Center, the Wounded Warrior Project, Policeman Windows Fund, and Fireman’s Widows Fund. “We then placed cards [that illustrated their donation] at each table accordingly — for those suffering or affected by cancer, or police officers and firefighters in attendance. It really was touching when people sat and realized what was in front of their seat,” says Charlotte.
Marty Mariano personalized his wedding to Tom Tucker with his World’s Fair cufflinks. “My father took me to The Worlds Fair in July of 1965,” he says. “I was sick with fever and he carried me the whole day. I wanted something to remember that by” (weddingprideny.com/t/112).
Marty Mariano and Tom Tucker wanted a fresh-cut, garden vibe for their Aug 2013 wedding. “The sight of the two of us with little nosegays — it’s just not us,” says Tom of their royal blue irises, which happen to be his favorite flower (weddingprideny.com/t/112).
Many wedding conventions need to be customized when planning a same-sex wedding. Gender-specific roles such as the proposal, walking down the aisle, and throwing — even carrying — a bouquet need to be considered and altered to reflect the personalities and beliefs of every gay and lesbian couple. And though many may find the concept of a same-sex wedding pretty extraordinary within itself — especially those who live in states where it is not yet legal — you know that your sexuality does not define who you are as a couple. You and yours-to-be share many interests, hobbies, passions, philosophies, and traditions that make the two of you as unique as any other engaged, crazy-in-love couple in the history of engaged, crazy-in-love couples. So why shouldn’t your wedding reflect that in its food, guestbook, vows, entertainment, decor, transportation, and music?
Leave your fingerprint on your guests’ wedding psyche by looking to something truly rare for inspiration — your love.
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